I strongly believe people should avoid telling freshly dumped/left/divorced/what have you people that they’ll find someone else. It seems like a comforting thought but I really think that’s why relationships are treated so poorly now. “It’s okay, I’ll find someone else if they don’t like how I treat them.” The logical truth is, well, no you might not find someone else. And that’s okay. You don’t need to. But to constantly backup a breakup/split with “there’s other people out there” it just allows us to think its okay if we lose a million people, because there’s a million more. I just don’t think false hope helps a breakup. If anything, I’d rather hear logic. Yes he left me, yes he didn’t try, yes it might be a long time until I find someone else, if I CHOOSE to find someone else. I don’t need to find someone else in order to justify why someone broke up with me. Maybe I was annoying, maybe I was rude, ugly, loud, who knows. But that’s okay. It doesn’t mean I need to go find someone else to accept that.
Omfg I was sitting in a room with a bunch of my aunts, uncles and cousins and my grandma had this weird smile on her face so I asked her what was up and she just looked at me and said “everyone in this house is alive thanks to my vagina”
why are girls like “oh it’s december i need a boyfriend to keep me warm” no you can buy a coat like the rest of the single people