I strongly believe people should avoid telling freshly dumped/left/divorced/what have you people that they’ll find someone else. It seems like a comforting thought but I really think that’s why relationships are treated so poorly now. “It’s okay, I’ll find someone else if they don’t like how I treat them.” The logical truth is, well, no you might not find someone else. And that’s okay. You don’t need to. But to constantly backup a breakup/split with “there’s other people out there” it just allows us to think its okay if we lose a million people, because there’s a million more. I just don’t think false hope helps a breakup. If anything, I’d rather hear logic. Yes he left me, yes he didn’t try, yes it might be a long time until I find someone else, if I CHOOSE to find someone else. I don’t need to find someone else in order to justify why someone broke up with me. Maybe I was annoying, maybe I was rude, ugly, loud, who knows. But that’s okay. It doesn’t mean I need to go find someone else to accept that.
Omfg I was sitting in a room with a bunch of my aunts, uncles and cousins and my grandma had this weird smile on her face so I asked her what was up and she just looked at me and said “everyone in this house is alive thanks to my vagina”
(via lithiumrainbow)
why are girls like “oh it’s december i need a boyfriend to keep me warm” no you can buy a coat like the rest of the single people
(via date)
(Source: not-claudius, via affectedrainbow)
